PRAYER When There is an Empty Chair

Lord, how magnificent You are and in times when our hearts hurt, we know we are dependent upon You.  On this day be our Light in the darkness. Just a glimmer of You is all we need to get through. You are so aware You are the only One upon whom we can rely and our trust is wholly in You. In Jesus' name, Amen
Lord, how magnificent You are and in times when our hearts hurt, we know we are dependent upon You. On this day be our Light in the darkness. Just a glimmer of You is all we need to get through. We are so aware You are the only One upon whom we can rely and our trust is wholly in You. In Jesus’ name, Amen

by Elizabeth Burgard Fulgaro © 2014

Note:  The times of year focused on celebrating family and friendships can be the most difficult of all for those who have suffered various losses in relationship which can range from death to estrangement and everywhere in-between. The Lord created us for relationship and so when there is a break in relationship or distance between us there is hurt and grief.  This is a prayer for those who have an empty chair at their celebration table. May you each know the one or ones you love who are not there are remembered and so are you. The Lord is holding you close today.  God bless you! ~ Elizabeth


Lord, today is a day we choose to gather and give thanks. We give thanks for how You care and provide for us in ongoing, manifold, wondrous and beautiful ways. You care for us in ways we understand and You lead us through dark valley where we do not. All in all, through all things, You continue to lead us providing for us on this journey home, where we are Your lambs who understand so little, and You are our Shepherd who understands all things at all times and is leading, stewarding and guiding all things to their completion, and that end is not an end, but an eternal beginning which is greater than anything we can fathom with our childlike minds (in comparison to yours).

Lord, there is an empty chair at the table today and in this regard, the day is hard. Oh, we are giving thanks, for we know You are there, but the chair Lord is a reminder of one who is not with us and while the remembrance is important because we cannot bear for this one to be forgotten or not somehow included, our hearts also hurt!

You, oh Lord, are love and You created us in Your image, thus You created us to love and need to be loved. Oh, Lord God, You knit each one of us together in our mother’s womb and You made each of us completely unique. Awesome God, You are! But this means when one whom we love is missing there is a hole which cannot be filled by any other. And so today while celebrating the many blessings, there are various forms of grief mingling with the joy.

We bow our heads and so give thanks again, for You know the struggles in our hearts and even in this You are there. (Sometimes we wish we could feel You more.) As You know, life here is not easy and there are even days we actually yearn for heaven now and yet, simultaneously we know Your timing is perfect.

Lord, thank You for the many blessings You have put into our lives up until this day. Thank You for this moment where we know You hear us. Thank You that we can come to You with all things. Thank You for the times You have allowed us to walk closely with those You put in our lives to love and thank You for how You are there to hold us up (even when it is difficult for us to humanly perceive it) and we can lean on You when the paths of their lives have diverged from ours. Lord, thank You most of all for the gift of Jesus, so that this life is not the end, so that through Jesus there is hope for reunion. Thank You that we can rely on Your word and trust that indeed Your ways with each of us are not ours, but higher and better. We rely on Your promise that yes, You are all good, even in the face of evil. We rejoice without seeing in that which is yet to come and give thanks that You are Truth so we can rely on Your promises. We rest in the fact that You love every person more than we do and that You alone have known and know the heart of each and every individual and promise not to lose a single one of those given to You by Father—who created all.

Thus, on this day, once again all our hope and our trust are in You and we are quite literally eternally grateful that You are faithful. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Enter His gates with thanksgiving, and his courts with praise! Give thanks to him; bless his name! For the LORD is good; his steadfast love endures forever, and his faithfulness to all generations. (Ps. 100:4-5)

The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul. He leads me in paths of righteousness for his name’s sake. Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; you anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life, and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord forever. (Ps. 23)

Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths. (Prov. 3:5-6)

Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and the sea was no more. And I saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband. And I heard a loud voice coming from the throne saying, “Behold, the dwelling place of God is with man. He will dwell with them, and they will be his people., and God himself will be with them as their God. He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.” And he who was seated on the throne said, “Behold I am making all things new.”… (Rev. 21:1-5)


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Elizabeth Fulgaro is a wife, mother, writer, inspirational speaker, worship leader, composer, singer & recording artist.  She is also a Certified Financial Planner and Accredited Financial Counselor with a heart for helping Christians understand and steward their finances God’s way. 

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Author: Elizabeth Fulgaro

I am a God-seeker--a Jesus-worshipper--a Holy Spirit follower. I create songs, devotions, prayers, books and Bible studies to give words with which to get to know God more. For you. Its for one-on-One encounter unto transformed, transcendent living. This is not my vocation. I am not professional. I am a real, ordinary person just looking to do what God put me here to do. (You have a unique purpose too.) So I am called to the work. It is not my income source, but my gift to those who find it blessing. Eagles Nest Foundation sponsors all projects for you. The result: pure, clean spiritual nutrition to feed that deep insatiable spiritual hunger which eventually overtakes each of us and galvanizes you to the life God has for you. This life is purposeful. Exceptional. You--yes, you--are called to something greater and more satisfying in His service. So it is hoped you'll try this spiritually dense nutrition and find it to be a personal blessing. However, the goodness of God-following doesn't stop there. He uses those who seek Him to be His love and care (justice, mercy, advocate, kindness) very tangibly in the lives of those around you. Not by your power but by His. His ideas. God ideas. Not just good ideas. To be part of changing the world, if you will let Him. You learn to just follow where He leads. That if you listen, He will teach you to hear His voice and then when you obey His inner promptings you will become His incredible hands and feet in this hard world. These materials will help! They will help you aim your life towards God in a way you never look back. You will not be the same. He will become the River in your desert spaces and you will become a conduit of this same River of refreshing, replenishing Water of Life to others. Find a prayer. Pick a blog post. Read a book. Be led deeper into the Bible. Select a song which resonates and use it and use it again to go close and ever closer to the God who longs to draw you near. Oh, and don't be tempted to think I'm a crazy over-spiritualized loony...My background is financial planning and counseling. Almost 40 years of it. To choose to believe in God is not to leave practicality and reason behind, but to learn that there is that which goes beyond it and includes it, unto true life fulfillment beyond all your dreams for the one who keeps seeking Him. I am a third generation Californian. I am a person to whom family means everything. The only priority higher is God. The foothills of the Sierra Nevada are my home. It is here the 1849-1856 Gold Rush is still glorified. Easy money? Actually only for the few. Even though I was raised in the Church, it took me ten years of doubting God even existed to realize that without Him, no matter how much of this life's "stuff" is accumulated, I actually have nothing. To come to know that all those who chased after gold are dead and all those who still chase stuff will be dead. That's when I became a God-seeker. Looking for that more. And Eureka! (This is California's state slogan and means I found it.) I found God...or rather, I discovered He was there and had been there waiting for me to look for Him the whole time. May you discover more of Him for you, greater flourishing life and greater flourishing for all in the world as well. God bless you! ~Elizabeth

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