Give Thanks! He Opens & Shuts the Doors

Lord, You are the Door, the Gate and the Way. You lead us in the way we should go. We trust in You, rely on You and rest in You - especially when we don't understand.

by Elizabeth Burgard Fulgaro (c) 2011

….these are the words of him who is holy and true, who holds the key of David.  What he opens no one can shut, and what he shuts no one can open.  (Rev. 3:7  NIV)

7 Keep on asking and it will be given you; keep on seeking and you will find; keep on knocking [reverently] and [the door] will be opened to you.

8 For everyone who keeps on asking receives; and he who keeps on seeking finds; and to him who keeps on knocking [the door] will be opened.   (Matt. 7-8 Amplified)

Such hope in these verses and the promises from God that:

  • He will hear our prayers and answer!
  • He will make open the door to possibilities no one can stop!

And yet, we must also read the remainder of Revelation 3:7.  In addition to opening doors for us that no one can shut, He will also shut doors so that they cannot be opened.

He explains His way further in Matt. 7:9-11.  These verses directly follow His promise that if we ask and keep on asking the door will be opened for us.

9 Or what man is there of you, if his son asks him for a loaf of bread, will hand him a stone?

10 Or if he asks for a fish, will hand him a serpent?

11 If you then, evil as you are, know how to give good and advantageous gifts to your children, how much more will your Father Who is in heaven [perfect as He is] give good and advantageous things to those who keep on asking Hiim! (Matt. 7:9-11 Amplified)

We all know how children can ask and ask and ask for something we know isn’t best for them.  But given their as-yet limited comprehension, they are not to be deterred from their asking.  They are adamant that they want what they want, and sometimes not to be consoled in the moment. And yet, with the passage of time, in many cases they come to see that what they had asked for was not as good for them as what they eventually received.  In other words, they thought they were asking for a loaf of bread, but without knowing were actually asking for a stone…

This is the way it can be between God and us.  God is the perfect parent.  He knows the plans He has for us, which are to prosper us and not to harm us – to give us a hope and a future.  His ways are not ours because He is God and we are not.  In fact, as high as the heavens are above the earth, that is how much higher and better His ways are than ours.

Therefore there will be times when we ask and it seems He is not answering.  There will be times when we seemingly are begging Him to open a door so we can go through and yet it is as if we are banging our heads against an immoveable wall.  When we have asked and asked, when we have done what we can do and He has not sovereignly  moved to answer our prayer with His possibility, we have to remember that out of love for us, He will also close doors so that they cannot be opened.

What He knows is not in our best interest and the best interest of others involved from an eternal perspective, He will not give to us.  He will answer our prayer (because this is His promise), but He will do so in another way.  He will not give us the stone we think we want, but will withhold it until it is His timing to provide the bread He knows we need.  He will not open a door which He knows is not the best for us to go through (or when it is not yet time), but will lock that door and open only the one which He knows is His plan for us.

We are so blessed to be His children, who He loves so much, that He “childproofs” the doors He knows are not right for us!  The next time, we feel like nothing is going our way even though we have prayed and worked –  we must pause and look for another way.  God may have locked the door, so that we have to consider another, which He already knows will be better according to His perfect plan for us all.

Selah! [Pause, and calmly think of that!]


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Elizabeth Fulgaro is a wife, mother, writer, inspirational speaker, worship leader, composer, singer & recording artist.  She is also a Certified Financial Planner and Accredited Financial Counselor with a heart for helping Christians understand and steward their finances God’s way. 

For books, worship cds, Bible studies and teachings written by Elizabeth Fulgaro or to schedule her to come speak to your group please visit  Worship music audio clips can be found at For information on her work for the military and their families please visit   Eagles Nest Foundation is a 501(c)3 corporation. Contributions are tax-deductible.

Author: Elizabeth Fulgaro

I am a God-seeker--a Jesus-worshipper--a Holy Spirit follower. I create songs, devotions, prayers, books and Bible studies to give words with which to get to know God more. For you. Its for one-on-One encounter unto transformed, transcendent living. This is not my vocation. I am not professional. I am a real, ordinary person just looking to do what God put me here to do. (You have a unique purpose too.) So I am called to the work. It is not my income source, but my gift to those who find it blessing. Eagles Nest Foundation sponsors all projects for you. The result: pure, clean spiritual nutrition to feed that deep insatiable spiritual hunger which eventually overtakes each of us and galvanizes you to the life God has for you. This life is purposeful. Exceptional. You--yes, you--are called to something greater and more satisfying in His service. So it is hoped you'll try this spiritually dense nutrition and find it to be a personal blessing. However, the goodness of God-following doesn't stop there. He uses those who seek Him to be His love and care (justice, mercy, advocate, kindness) very tangibly in the lives of those around you. Not by your power but by His. His ideas. God ideas. Not just good ideas. To be part of changing the world, if you will let Him. You learn to just follow where He leads. That if you listen, He will teach you to hear His voice and then when you obey His inner promptings you will become His incredible hands and feet in this hard world. These materials will help! They will help you aim your life towards God in a way you never look back. You will not be the same. He will become the River in your desert spaces and you will become a conduit of this same River of refreshing, replenishing Water of Life to others. Find a prayer. Pick a blog post. Read a book. Be led deeper into the Bible. Select a song which resonates and use it and use it again to go close and ever closer to the God who longs to draw you near. Oh, and don't be tempted to think I'm a crazy over-spiritualized loony...My background is financial planning and counseling. Almost 40 years of it. To choose to believe in God is not to leave practicality and reason behind, but to learn that there is that which goes beyond it and includes it, unto true life fulfillment beyond all your dreams for the one who keeps seeking Him. I am a third generation Californian. I am a person to whom family means everything. The only priority higher is God. The foothills of the Sierra Nevada are my home. It is here the 1849-1856 Gold Rush is still glorified. Easy money? Actually only for the few. Even though I was raised in the Church, it took me ten years of doubting God even existed to realize that without Him, no matter how much of this life's "stuff" is accumulated, I actually have nothing. To come to know that all those who chased after gold are dead and all those who still chase stuff will be dead. That's when I became a God-seeker. Looking for that more. And Eureka! (This is California's state slogan and means I found it.) I found God...or rather, I discovered He was there and had been there waiting for me to look for Him the whole time. May you discover more of Him for you, greater flourishing life and greater flourishing for all in the world as well. God bless you! ~Elizabeth

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